Day 13 - Growing Up Free-Range
I was part of a generation of Free Range Kids. I grew up at a time when children went anywhere and everywhere in the neighborhood by themselves. At first we walked, but then bicycles gave us a wider...
Day 12 - Love, Faith and Hope
I despised the fake paper cross stitch pictures in my mother’s kitchen. There were three of them that she hung on the kitchen table wall in a triangle pattern – Faith, Hope and Love, with Love on the...
Day 11 - Expressing Emotion
“Well, as my mother said, ‘If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all,’” I announced smugly, looking around the therapy room for approval. “That’s a terrible thing to say to a child!”...
Day 10 - No More Llamas, Please
I subscribe to a daily email message from the TUT (The Universe Talks.) It’s an inspirational message from Mike Dooley that in some way teaches if you visualize what you want with positive intention,...
Day 9 - The Womb Story
“Mrs. Rosenbrock, you lost your baby. What you’re telling me is impossible.” “But Doctor, it’s true! I still feel life!” The climax of the story of my mother’s birth is imprinted upon my DNA indelibly....
Day 8 - The Dance of a Long Life
My grandfather taught me to dance by standing on his feet. When I was four or five, small enough that my little feet fit on top of his big ones, we’d dance to songs on the Lawrence Welk show in our TV...
Day 7 - Understanding Onliness
“You’re just a spoiled only child!” Tears sprang to my eyes as yet another classmate on the playground delivered the trump card at the end of a spat. These people had no idea how hard it was to stick...
Day 6 - Processing a Work/Life Balance
“My name is Robbin, and I’m a perfectionist.” If there was a support group for recovering perfectionists, I’d be its star member. Heck, I’d be the president. The NATIONAL president! And then I’d start...
Day 5 - Processing Culture and Community
Don’t rock the boat. Don’t pay attention to that. Don’t stick out. Don’t cross the tracks. Don’t point out the obvious. Don’t say that out loud. Don’t embarrass me. Don’t talk about sex, drugs or rock...
Day 4 - A Tribute to My Friend, Zot
Once upon a time, I had a beautiful friend named Zot. Zot and I met in college, when Zot’s pronoun was still “he.” Zot was different from anyone I had ever experienced – a deep thinker, an explorer of...